It's Not Chivalry, It's Being A Man

There are some very basic things in a relationship that all men should follow.  These are all fairly simple and it does not require any drastic changes in lifestyle.

1.  When she's freaking out for whatever reason; just shut the fuck up and listen.  It goes against your every instinct as a man I know.  But when she's freaking out, she doesn't want you to solve her problem, no matter how big or small you think it may be.  She just wants you to listen.


2.  When you're both at home at the end of the day, ask her a simple "how was your day"?  I know that it can be hard to hear her talk but understand that for her, it's the equivalent of "would you like a blowjob"?

3.  Flowers/candy/gifts on Valentine's Day.  This seems very basic but some guys still don't do it.  IF you're in a relationship with a woman, this is basic.  Now some men may argue that their girlfriend has said "I don't want flowers, they're cheesy".  And some women may genuinely feel that way, but I guarantee you, no woman will be upset that you surprised her with flowers.  Ever.

4.  Learn what she likes in bed.  Don't assume, don't just go in like a bat out of hell.  Listen, talk, and learn.  Yes, some women may like similar things, but that doesn't mean it's the same.  You want to feel good?  So does she.  So take the time to learn.

5.  You get what you give.  If you expect some down under fun, give it back.  Especially for men who don't last that long.  If you only last five minutes, let your tongue make the rest.

6.  Make time.  Women tend to be more in touch with their feelings than men.  And when you take time out of your busy schedule to accommodate them, it means a lot.  I'm not talking about cut an hour out of your work day just for her.  During a quick coffee break, call her to say hi.  (You don't need to do this every day.)

7.  Say/show.  If you're not a big talker, show her how much she means to you.  Take her out, or give her a gift (gifts do NOT have to be expensive.  It can be something as simple as a DVD of the first movie you watched together).  If you do talk a lot, throw in a "I'm lucky to have you in my life, I love you".

See?  Nothing too complex right?  Give her these simple things and you'll be surprised what you get back in return.